Socialites and Homebodies
I can’t tell you how many times I have seen this. A guy gets into the pick up community to build up his social skill set. He goes out to clubs and builds a real fun social circle so he can find the perfect girl to settle down with. He builds his skill set to [...]
Funny Pick Up Lines
I occasionally like to go out hunting for funny pick up lines. Here are a few I have run into recently.
you’ve been a naughty girl, go to my room.
you’re hotter than a bunsen burner set to full power
my friend over there wants to know if you think I’m cute
you might not be the hottest chick [...]
On Being Creepy
Are you creepy? Have people told you you are creepy? Have you creeped people out in social situations? I have run into creepy people, read posts by people who think they are creepy and even (I know it’s suprising) been told that I was acting creepy (I know, but it’s true, they have!) What do [...]
Gettin’ Bluesy On a Tuesday
Way back in July of last year I wrote a post about Seductive Jobs. Oxygen magazine polled some 10,000 women on the sexiest jobs. The top 5 jobs were, in order: Firefighter, Musician, Soldier, Business Owner and carpenter/mechanic. Since I read that I have had the plan to start or join a band. The problem [...]
We Don’t Communicate
She says “We don’t communicate.” It’s totally out of left field. You are watching the game or playing one and she hits you with that bomb. You weren’t aware of any communication problems. In fact, the communication is just fine. You feel no need to mention anything about the relationship, she seems to be doing [...]
When Friends Get Drunk
I am no angel. I have had one or two drinks in my life. That being said, I have recently decided to stop drinking when I go out. I still will have the occasional glass of wine with dinner or a beer at band practice (I recently took up the electric bass.) When I go [...]
The Elevator Pitch, One Minute to Success
Somewhere runnung around the back country roads of my brain is the elevator pitch. I had heard about it years ago and then promptly forgot about it. Well Timothy Ferriss reminded me. The Elevator Pitch is all about first impressions. It’s a pickup line. You have 30 seconds to a minute to plug yourself to [...]
I Need My Space
All men have heard it. All women have said it. So why does she freak out so bad when you say it. Knowing why she’s so afraid of it can help save a relationship.
It’s no secret that men and women have vastly different subtexts when they speak. different languages so to speak. One of the [...]
The Truth About What Women Want Out Of Dating
photo credit: beautyfromashes
As I go through and revise my plans for this site and what I want to say with it I find it hard to define some of the things that I believe. The truth is that defining what I believe is hard. Occasionally, I find something that defines what the seductive lifestyle [...]
How to Sound Deep and Say Nothing
I almost snarfed my morning coffee today. I was channel surfing and noticed PBS had some guy on talking about the Tao De Ching. “Ok,” I thought, “Lets see what he has to say.” He was in the middle of telling some story about a parrot that was told that he had to die while [...]





